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The Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours
in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in
front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large
and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He
then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the
jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas
between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was
full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the
jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
space between the sand. The students laughed.

"Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
important things---God, your family, your children, your health, your
friends and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and
only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house
and your car.

The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and
energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that
are important to you.

"Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play
with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house
and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things
that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand ."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
 

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Hi Ryan,
;-)
I'm just stopping in from Elana's space and wanted to say "hi"
I loved this post!
I attended a workshop called:  "The 7 Habits Of Highly Effecive People"  by Stephen R,. Covey ~ and this story was demonstrated!  It's really true!
 
Anyways, my space is private, so I'm leaving you my E-mail addy, okie?
It would be nice to hear from back from you,
 
take care
4 月 23 日
Hiya Ryan, Please come by and make me laugh=O)
I hope all is well with you.
Spaces has been crazy but fun too...U know...
The Love Hate Thing....snickering
 
Big time hugs to ya Sweetie...
Shannon
 
Hey wanna vote for me?
That would be Hot!
 
Here's how it works...
In order to have your votes count you must place a vote for someone in each of the 3 categories. Here is what I picked but you can choose anyone on the list there.

Shannon- Most Friendly

Wayward Bill- Most Diverse

Tim-Best Music/Videos

Heres where you go to vote-

http://spaces-hall-of-fame.spaces.live.com/

 
8 月 15 日
hope ya hada great weeend! and an even betta day at work =)
8 月 13 日
8 月 11 日
hope things are going well...

:o) smiles easy to give away they are free... :o) very contagious... :o) so pass one to anyone ... :o) to people that you love... :o) and even to those you don't... :o) in no time the whole world will be smiling :o)

8 月 10 日
g'morn'n Mr. Booth!
 
how r ya? .. i seen ur lil comment 2 cute thot i betta say hey ~
i havent really blogged or returned comments 4 about 2 weeks almost
my schedule is so ridiculous ~ im losing days here..
 
i had the best weekend eva ~ went to a world record party
would lov to blog about it.. i hav pictures..
 
but again the time thing ~ i gotta head out now and drive my neighbor lady ta work
than come home get myself ready for work ~ work till 5, meeting at 6, dinner at 8 and was invited to the movies for 9.. cant wait till saturday morning when i shut my ringerz off and lie in bed and chill
8 月 10 日
AngelMiny发表:
Hi Ryan my good friend,
 
How are u??? Firstly my sincere apologies for coming by so late...I m sorry to hear that :(......Actually i fell down and was hurt badly....was almost admitted ...was on mc for a week and besides was quiet busy with national day....
 
Hope everyhing is fine for u out there......hmmmm.....
 
Very touching story Ryan.....Really and hence its true....
 
Take Care Ryan....my email is minyangel@hotmail.com...if u need to talk abt it u can always mail me...Ryan...
 
God bless u always my good friend
 
Regards
Miny
8 月 9 日
Nicci发表:
 

.· ´¨¨)) -:¦:-
¸.·´ .·´¨¨))
(¸¸.·´ ..·´ -:¦:-Hi  !

Just taking a moment to return the ♥  from your comment.. sending hopefully some warm & fuzzies your way!

Man alive ... thanks for the tip regarding my links.. not sure which links though are falling dead, however, i do plan on checking them all within the next day or so....

I love this blog ryan..so true! honestly one of the best ways fo looking at life... I have never heard this one until now and i do think it nails it ... and I wish in my time I had had a teacher do such a thing...

Thanks for shedding light and sharing a great story!

 

Quote of the Day....
You only live once...but if you live it right, once is enough
Give up for a second and that is where you will finish


ⓑⓔ ⓣⓡⓤⓔ  ⓣⓞ ⓤ♥Nicci♥

8 月 8 日
FoxAimee发表:
Hey Ryan that is such a cool thing to read and right when i needed to read something like that. Things here have been really hard lately. That's why I haven't been writing, everything feels like it's falling apart and I am just standing there watching. However I know things will get better eventually because well they have to it can't stay bad forever right? Anyway I hope everything is good for you and your smilin lots. DOn't worry I 'll find my smile again soon.
8 月 7 日
that is so true...and it's good to see an update....lol...

:o) smiles are so easy to give away cause they are free... :o) and very contagious just wait and see... :o) so pass one to anyone you see... :o) to people that you love... :o) and even to those you don't... :o) in no time the whole world will be smiling :o)

8 月 4 日
How are you coping with the changes???
8 月 4 日
chloweee发表:
UMmmm HI!
WOW HOLY LONG COMMENT HAhha...and now I shall attempt to write one of equally long length I`m excited it should be magical :) ahhaha.Ummm so I began a comment earlier but the computer earased it...strangely enough it was right after I was saying how much I hated the new blogsa..hahah its a CONSPIRACY DUH UNNNN. Anyways they are all crappy and freezing all the time again...uhhhhh IUm frustrated already haha.Please excuse all the typos...its meesing with my computer...abnd typing everything really slow...
ANYWAYS
 
Ummm so your Deja Vu sounds disturbing...mines cool, its like Hey! This has happened before I do recall..but then it isnt all freaky horror movie on it..it comes and goes..I enjoy being curiously creeped out everyonce and awhile.. by deja vu that is...and then thats about it.. Im kinda glad my deja vu isnt like yours...repeated nightmares? that doesnt sound like fun...Umm I have dreams but they never reaccur..AND USALLY they`re really funny...OH except last night I was watching TV with Mica and I fell asleep and I had a dream about crossing a street and then a car pulled out and was about to hit me and I jumped and woke upi HAHAHA and Mica's like....What the hell?
HAHAH Yes swag is exciting :) I lvoe it...plus free shows I like that too :)Yahhh I dont usally stain the carpet I usually stain my clothes...which is another lovely reason for me to wear alot of black :) THOUGH I do remember once me and Taylor spilt hot chocolate on my moms rugs in her room ...adn the carpet was yellow HAHAH and we like madly ran around my hosue looking for cleaning products and we found a ton of carpet cleaner and stuff and started like hastily cleaning...actually it worked reaosnably well :)I was quite proud,Yah I guess everyone hads that one house that they like...really want to relive ...damn eh? No point movving backwards :P *shrugs*
Hummm i do not think you ever told me about this magical hiding place?  It soudns very cool...HAHAH like the one time at the  old hous I had and me and my sister made my dad play hise and seek with us...HAHA it was grand.  but our hisding was pretty damn crappy...
Nah I`d definately chalk the good baking up to fluke..or the fact that i only use mixes haha.  Ummm family Living Class...we ll  I`m not really even sure what its purpose was hahha it was like life skills along with phychologoly...kinda depended what day you showed up on...
 
Hummm this water thing sounds very exciting though im not sure I want to turn myself into a human fountain...it`d have to be a VERY special party for that to work :P:Phahaha  I dunnooo i need some good skills still I`ll keep thinking...but then i`ll get distratced hahaha.
HAha You space is playign music now,,and it scared me alot...I was trying to listen to a song..and then imlike...this isnt it..and THEN i relised. It was No woman no cry...but it must have been a cover...because it was not bob marley...*ponders* ANYWAYS that was off topic.
 
nah we're not christian...im agnostic i guess i dont really think about it. You?
Ciao Bella
PS...nhahah yah the cheey thing was amusing..I hate all cherries though because of the texture...actually fruit isnt really my favourite to be quite honest...I suppose having a strong tongue would be benefical *shurgs& I REALLY hate cherruies. Humm now Im curious about your other suggestion....And I think you should tell me. Because Im annoying whrn Im curious.ANYWAYS im gonna cut this off now because the new spaces are annyoing me QUITE a biut  hahah so See yah :P
 
 
 
8 月 3 日
*winx bakatcha!
8 月 3 日

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